two of my favorites responded, leaving me with a barrel of entertainment packed into every minute of this show. aubrey  and daisy were my lovey in studio guests, and we had a very interesting time.

tori and i discussed in self aware/new agey (my fav)/ psychological terms (much to daisy’s dismay) the process of becoming aware of certain things in your relationships in order to change them, and attract the right kind of relationships and love.

then Tori did a color wisdom card reading for each of us. (around halfway through the show)

aubrey went first, and we knew then that this was good. Tori was good. she hit on some majorly interesting things  for us.

she chose two colors for aubrey and daisy and reviewed them and their meanings. then she chose two for me, and i actually got one of the same as aubrey’s and one of the same as daisy’s.

she was a little surprised, and then explained that it was probably because i had so much energy invested in their outcomes and that i cared so deeply for their happiness, or something. awwww.

to get a clear picture, she drew three cards for me, and WOW. basically my destiny in life is to heal myself of past wounds and then HELP OTHERS heal/have happy relationships. uh, thank you validation (that i knew all along, but now YOU see ;)

preeeetttty cool. check her out at www.torihartman.com

and listen to the podcast. it’s great.

tori hartman gives us hope.

after coming back to SF from a long weekend in my hometown i was inspired to dedicate this date night to detroit. with dale earnhardt jr jr in town that night, and having seen jessica hernandez and the deltas three days before it seemed fitting.

includes an interview with jessica hernandez where we discuss the creative scene in detroit, her music, how the band has evolved and what’s to come.

we’ll talked about the perils of dating as a writer, the consequences of his post “you shouldn’t have sex with me” and  what it’s like to date in the city. we talked and our own personal ‘filtering’ process for whom we date, the non negotiables, and hairy boys.

we also did a not so his vs. hers top 5 list. more a steph’s ‘biggest guy complaints in sf’, and noah’s ‘what guys are annoyed with while trying to date in sf’ list sharing.

plus girls peeing in bed, boys being wimping and uncommittal, and pawning of noah for a date. or trying to.

check itttt.

why you shouln’t have sex with me-noah berkowitz.

we discuss the parallels of dating and music making, as well as writing and music making.

they sing songs and discuss dating in new york versus san francisco.

a grand time.

model student musicians discuss dating and music making.

jesper has created two (and is working on a third) social service websites that focus specifically on human aspects of “social networking”- NOT wanting to see certain people, forgiving and asking for forgiveness, and the complexities of having and telling secrets.

our discussion started with jesper sharing a personal relationship story which led to the creation of http://www.avoidr.org/, http://www.theforgivenessengine.com/ and upcoming disclosur…

as someone who is VERY passionate about awareness of the effects of social media on our relationships, i was SO excited to talk with jesper because his social media ‘projects’ highlight some of the things we need to be aware of.

you can find more about avoider, the forgiveness engine, and jesper at certaintylabs.com

also, check out the press this fella’s getting!

huffingtonpost
daily intel- nymag
nytimes blog
ABCnews
mashable
urban daddy

you can find both of us on twitter- @stephdub @jandersen.

jesper andersen and i talk the ebbs and flows of relationships and social media.

we discussed the perks of using thread.com to meet and be introduced to new people, why it’s different from just looking at your friends’ friends on facebook, and how to be a successful matchmaker!

these two really get it. single themselves, they understand what it’s like to just want to meet new people. and how hard dating is. thread.com and its features reflect that. smart AND attractive, these two are both quite the catch.

check out the podcast, and http://thread.com

thread.com founders and i talk how to date in sf, and utilize your friends networks.

apple fanboy fangirl dating, with cupidtino.com.

we discuss what it means to ‘be ready’ to start dating, the importance of knowing yourself and what you want, and being present while on a first date.

“i learned more about myself and…learning how to be true to myself…”

a GREAT show!!

first dates, lying about your height, and figuring out what you want.

date night radio is officially back on the air every wednesday night from 8-10pm PST. exciting, you say? I SAY TOO!

here’s the ’season’ premiere with special guest amanda carpenter!

this episode is all about my change in attitude towards dating and my openness to try try again. and just dive in!

listen up
diving back in.

the third date.